MY FAMILY OF ALL PEOPLE

Being gay isn't the easiest thing, and I'm sure that anyone who is gay can relate to this statement. It is hard enough when, you, as a teenager battle with accepting yourself and often asking yourself "What is wrong with me"? It can bring up a lot of unpleasent thoughts to your mind, with me, even scuicide came to mind. I just wanted to be loved and accepted for the friendly guy I was. I wanted everyone to treat me with respect and care for my feelings.... Those were really dark times, hey.



Constant false accusations from family memebers who gang up on you.

 

Now, just when I think I am past those horrible events of being told just how inadequate, abnormal I am, my family starts doing that to me. If my my own fami, of all people doesnt understand or accept who and what I am, who will??? Is there, then, such a thing called love and happiness or is it all just a fairytale??/

Is this really my destiny?

 



Getting your groove back

Wondering just what it is that you need to do to get a smile back on your face?? Bored, tired and lonely?? Maybe you just need to get into that UN-explored side of yourself and get yourself to mingle with other people, even if its people you don't know.. Get spontaneous and do only the things you secretly fantasise about, you'll be surprised just what wonders it can do for you.

The Media's Potrayal of Drugs

SABC1's Tshisa Cast

The statistics of drug usage amongst teenagers ockingly incereasing and there has been huge concerns on how the media might be impacting on this. Kids are know for being copy cats: they do whatever they see being done, especially by the people they consider as their heroes... So, is the media, then helping increase instead of decreasing the drug usage in South Africa by airing shows like Tshisa, where the drug uasage is so explicit and is done by the "cool kidz" like Bongani Masondo (Bafana),Innocent Masuku (Baksteen) and Thandi Matlaila (Lindiwe). The media potrays these drug habits as some cool habits to practice, and hardly ever shows how these drug users die, or maybe even lose all they have because of drugs.. All we ever see is the high lives that these user live,the fancy parties they attend nad how their rich families always jump in for their rescue, sending them to rehab only for them to return and go back to their old habits.

I feel that the media should, more often, show the real dangers and situations that drug user get into.. they should look more into the real lives of people who once had the money to go to the fancy parties, wear the right clothes and still afford huge grams of coke, but now can't.... That is the only way that the children of South Africa will see the dangers of using drugs and stay away from them

A Smack User getting a fix.

The media should also potray in a serious way, how people also struggle with drug, cigarrete and alcohol addictions and, often can only be saved by rehab, which also doesn't guarantee much that they will quit.

A Smoker struggling with addiction.

And lastly, the media should, more often show how people struggle to get into rehab... How they are forcefully dragged by their few, privilaged loved ones who are able to afford rehab to give themany who use but cant even afford rehab a chance to see what they are letting themselves by taking drugs.

Mourning and crying about things is important. I say this because I have now seen it in my own life. When I broke up with with my 4yr sweet heart back in 2009, I played strong and did not see the need to mourn him. Instead I wanted to get a "quick replacement" for him and move on but now, four years later, I have come to realise that you cannot easily replace someone just like that. When you lose someone you love, it is very important to admit, firstly to yourself the pain of the loss and do your best to save the relationship before giving it up. Avoid slutting around, like I did and rather take that time as the time to re-cap on your life and see what you need to fix. I could have saved my relationship if I had just been honest and told him how I felt and, most importantly, apologized for all the terrible things I had done to him. Maybe you are on the verge of losing that special someone: Just know that you don't have to..... With a few apologies and maybe a change of attitude here and there, you might just save the relationship and get to keep that special someone forever. So tell that special someone how you feel before the sun sets.

Honesty is revealed

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Unfortunately I feel very sad  as I do not have any followers yet, but then again, maybe its because I haven't recieved any suggestions from anyone as  yet. I would not like to just ramble on about any topic as, what people want to hear about is very important to assist me in beginning to write about relevat topis. Assistance is required fellow mates, what do you want to hear about people?

My First experience

This is the first time I have ever created a  blog. I know I  have a lot to say, I am so excited! I would like  to write content that is suitable for my audience and is of interest to them as well.  I would like a few suggestions from my readers on what I should blog about.  your ideas would be great.

On a more personal note I am an individual who  really values my privacy. I wonder if that is  the intial reason, though why I started this blog. I love chatting and interacting about all life's different issues. Guys and Girls welcome to my world,  please give me your suggestions so that I can blog about topics that are of interest to you.( dont forget to follow the google link on my blog.:-).