Mourning and crying about things is important. I say this because I have now seen it in my own life. When I broke up with with my 4yr sweet heart back in 2009, I played strong and did not see the need to mourn him. Instead I wanted to get a "quick replacement" for him and move on but now, four years later, I have come to realise that you cannot easily replace someone just like that. When you lose someone you love, it is very important to admit, firstly to yourself the pain of the loss and do your best to save the relationship before giving it up. Avoid slutting around, like I did and rather take that time as the time to re-cap on your life and see what you need to fix. I could have saved my relationship if I had just been honest and told him how I felt and, most importantly, apologized for all the terrible things I had done to him. Maybe you are on the verge of losing that special someone: Just know that you don't have to..... With a few apologies and maybe a change of attitude here and there, you might just save the relationship and get to keep that special someone forever. So tell that special someone how you feel before the sun sets.